Do Your Friends Really Care — Or Are You Just Convenient?
A New Book That Asks the Question You’ve Been Afraid to Face
We don’t talk enough about friendship — not really. We talk about loyalty. We post smiling photos. We send memes and inside jokes. But deep down, many of us are wondering something far less cheerful:
“Are the people around me truly my friends… or have I just been useful to them?”
If you’ve ever asked yourself that question — or felt emotionally overdrawn, used, or invisible in your relationships — you’re not alone. And you’re not wrong for questioning it.
That’s exactly why I wrote Who Can You Trust?
This book is a no-fluff, honest, and empowering guide for anyone who’s tired of surface-level friendships and silent betrayals. It’s for the people who’ve always been “the strong one,” the fixer, the listener — and are now realizing they’ve been pouring into relationships that never pour back.
But let me be clear: this book is not about bitterness. It’s not about becoming cold or cutting everyone off. It’s about clarity. It’s about finally seeing your relationships for what they are — not what you hoped they could be.
Inside the book, I walk readers through:
The hidden red flags of toxic or one-sided friendshipsHow to tell the difference between real friends, situational friends, and emotional opportunists
Why we ignore the signs (and how to stop)
How to walk away from unhealthy dynamics — without guilt or drama
And most importantly, how to rebuild your circle with trust, discernment, and self-respect
It’s part self-help, part emotional reset. And it’s written for people who feel like they’ve outgrown the noise — and are ready for something real.
Because here’s the hard truth: not everyone deserves access to you.
Too many of us confuse history with connection. We assume that just because someone’s been around for years, they care. But real friendship isn’t about proximity — it’s about presence. It’s about people who choose you on the hard days, not just the fun ones.
If you’ve been second-guessing your relationships — or second-guessing yourself for questioning them — I wrote this book for you.
You’re not dramatic. You’re not too sensitive. You’re not overthinking.
You’re just done settling for half-love and half-effort.
You’re ready to trust your gut again — and build friendships that feel like home, not performance.
Who Can You Trust? is available now in paperback, Kindle, and eBook formats.
Read it. Reread it. Highlight it. Share it.
Let it be your guide back to clarity, connection, and peace.
Because you deserve more than people who only show up when it’s easy.
You deserve real ones.
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